by: Michael & Dianne Monahan
Author's note: This book is no longer
available as a printed work. It may be may downloaded, reproduced, copied and
distributed freely for the purpose of educating others about Shepherding Homes. The
only restriction is that it may not be sold for a profit. Our desire is to make the
information freely available without cost to any brave soul who is considering taking
unwed mothers into their home.
This booklet is a response to the growing demand for realistic
information concerning shepherding homes. We have encountered many individuals and groups
who have felt the desire to help in some way. Yet, very little information is available
which tells how to start and what to expect. The ideas presented here are easily read, but
are more difficult to appreciate fully. Each concept has been derived from our experiences
with a variety of girls who have lived with us. Our answers to problems are never perfect,
but have worked for us. We do not claim to be experts, but we do have many hard-earned
understandings to share. After reading this booklet, it may seem that it is not even worth
initiating a shepherding home. Please remember that this is a collection of our thoughts
concerning all the pitfalls we have encountered along the way. We offer our solutions so
that others may avoid these problems. All solutions do not fit all girls. Each girl is an
individual and must be treated as such. You may encounter those rare and beautiful girls
who make most of our advice seem rather unnecessary. We do not cover here all the joys nor
the love that we have shared with the people who have crossed our threshold. It is only
your own experience that can bring this treasure to you.