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WHY CAN'T WE LOVE THEM BOTH
by Dr. and Mrs. J.C. Willke
CHAPTER 28
PARENTAL NOTIFICATION AND BECKY BELL
The U.S. Supreme Courts Casey
Decision allowed states to pass laws requiring parental notification.
Explain such a law.
Typically, such a law requires the abortionist to notify one or both
parents of an unemancipated minor daughter prior to an abortion. A "minor
daughter" being under 18 and living at home. Under most state laws this only requires
notification. In some states it also requires consent.
The court has also required a "judicial bypass." This
means that if the girl feels that she may be abused by her parents when they find out, she
may go to a judge and ask for the courts approval to abort without parental
notification.
This requires some time?
Yes, and because of this, these laws are often paired with a waiting
period. This would be a required 24 or 48 hour waiting period after she has been examined
and the abortion agreed upon. Sometimes such a law is paired with parental notification.
In some states these laws requiring a waiting period have been passed standing alone.
What has been the usual ruling of a judge?
With few exceptions, cases that have gone to judges who have given
blanket approval for abortion.
What
percent of teenagers tell their parents freely?
The abortion industry tells us at least
three-fourths. Experience by pro-lifers has been about one-third. This is supported by a
study where 37% told the mother and 26% told the father. Minor Women Obtaining Abortions: A Study of Par. Notif. in a Metro. Area, F.
Clary, Am J. Pub H. Mar. 1982, Vol. 72, No. 3, P. 283
Why dont they tell their parents?
The main reason is embarrassment, shame and reluctance to hurt their
parents. Theres also a certain element of "My mom would just die!," and
"my dad would kill me." In fact, such retaliation rarely happens.
"The girls go through this alone because they
dont want to shatter the good girl image their parents have of them." T. Welsh, Fam. Plan. Persp. Dec. 83
But, there is a simple preventive measure.
What is that?
A pregnancy diagnosis is almost always made by a physician. If the
girl fears her parents, ideally, that physician should call one or both parents into his
office and break the news to them in front of the girl. If not face-to-face, this can be
done by the physician over the telephone. The result of this is that the parents,
particularly the father, have been notified that this authority figure knows and can and
will report any child abuse. As a result, it never happens.
But think of the emotional impact of notifying the parents!
I believe the following article answers that:
Your Daughter Pregnant?
And under 18 years? What does she think of you, her parents? Should
she tell you? Sadly, few girls want to.
They think youll explode, condemn, reject, feel ashamed. She
doesnt want to hurt you. But she is alone, frightened, defiant, worried. Yes, but
still a young girl who desperately needs your love and help. The Supreme Court ruling
assures her that she can have her baby killed, can internalize all of the psychic trauma,
the loneliness, the bitterness, and never know that . . .
If she had told you Yes, you might have "exploded"
initially. But then, with rare exceptions, you would have shared your tears and given her
the help, support, and love she so desperately needed. To her surprise, you would not
condemn, but offer all the love, help, and understanding you could in this time of trial.
In my 25 years of counseling, I have found that when a girl does come to her parents and
receives the help they can offer, it becomes the occasion of a real growth in maturity,
self-confidence, and ability to love by the girl. She faces her responsibility and stands
tall.
The family bond is strengthened by the sharing of the burden.
But no, now the tragic Supreme Court Decision can
guarantee that shell never know that you really love her and would have helped her.
Thanks to them, she can have her baby killed in secret and become disillusioned,
embittered, hardened. May God have mercy on those judges for what they have done. J. Willke, Cincinnati RTL Newsletter, July 1976, p. 3
What effect have parental notification laws had on the abortion rate?
In some small states, like Massachusetts, the answer is confused
because some teenagers cross into neighboring states for abortions. In a much larger state
like Minnesota where such travel is almost prohibitive, the record is very clear.
What is the result?
The State of Minnesota had such a law in place since
1981. Then the law was challenged in court and enjoined (suspended) in March 1986. The
Supreme Court later ruled that the law was constitutional, and it was reimposed. Hodgson v. State of Minn., 853 F. 2d 1452, 1458 n. 9 [8th Cir 1988]
In that state there were excellent records kept for several years
with the law in place, several more with-out the law, and then again with the law. Results
were very clear.
Perhaps not unexpectedly, the number of abortions to
unemancipated minors dropped, and by a figure of 34%. Correspondingly, the number of live
births to this group increased. The unexpected result was that the number of pregnancies
in this age group to unmarried girls decreased by 27%. Impact of MN Par. Notif. Law on Ab. and Birth, J. Rogers et al., Am.
J. Pub. Health, Mar. 91, vol. 81, no. 3, p. 294
A 27% decrease in teen pregnancies? Thats never happened
before, has it?
Correct. It was an amazing and heartwarming result. As everyone
knows, government at all levels, private groups, schools, churches, etc., have all been
trying to reduce teen pregnancies over the last several decades. The results of all of
these have been essentially negative, hardly moving the percentage one way or the other.
Then here we saw a full one-fourth decrease in teen pregnancies, an absolutely astonishing
and heart-warming effect.
Thats exactly what Planned Parenthood has been trying to do. Were they
pleased?
Not at all. In fact, they brought the lawsuit which enjoined the
law. Planned Parenthood has constantly been telling the world that it wants to reduce teen
pregnancies. Here was an outstanding example of an effective method, and Planned
Parenthood showed its true stripes. It went to court to stop the only major successful
program that limited teen pregnancies. So much for Planned Parenthoods claims that
it wants to reduce teen pregnancies.
But
didnt the Becky Bell case show otherwise?
The Becky Bell case ranks among the most totally misrepresented
happenings in the history of the abortion conflict. Lets recall her story.
Becky Bell is the now-famous 17-year-old Indianapolis girl who died
September 16, 1988. Her death has been portrayed by pro-abortion groups all over the
country as an example of why parental notification and consent laws are undesirable. The
story as told by her parents and others is that she had an illegal induced abortion,
became infected, developed pneumonia, and died from the infection. Indiana has a parental
consent law that is being enforced. Her parents state that if she could have gotten a
legal abortion in Indiana without her parents knowledge, she would be alive today.
The fact is that Becky never had an induced abortion.
She died from massive pneumonia and septic shock.
The National Abortion Rights Action League and her parents have repeatedly publicly stated
that Becky had an illegal induced abortion, that her womb became infected, the infection
spread, and that the pneumonia developed from this infection causing her death. They, and
almost universally newspaper accounts, painted a picture of a happy teenage girl,
accidentally pregnant, who had an illegal abortion. They have claimed that if Indiana law
had not required parental consent, she could have had a legal abortion and would not have
died. But reporter Rochelle Sharpe painted a far different picture, both about Becky
herself and the way she died. Gannett News, R.
Sharpe, 11/24/89, Access No. 119128
Becky had been involved sexually with a high school dropout as long
as one year before her death. He also introduced her to drugs. Sometime in late 1987 or
early 1988, her mother learned through a family friend that Becky might be pregnant, and
immediately took her to Planned Parenthood where the tests proved negative. Soon after
this, her parents also admitted her to the hospital for an almost two-month detoxification
program.
After returning home, she apparently became pregnant in mid-May.
This time, instead of telling her parents, she told only her best girl friend, Heather
Clark, who accompanied her to Planned Parenthood. She was pregnant this time and was told
about the Indiana consent law. According to the oft-repeated story of her friend Heather,
during the four months of her pregnancy, Becky wavered about what to do. She talked of
going to Kentucky for an abortion, or running away to California, having the baby, and
placing the child for adoption. But the key part of Beckys sad story is what
happened the last six days of her life. She attended a drug party on a Saturday night, six
days before she died. This is listed in the coroners report. It also details the
fact that Becky told her mother that she thought some one had put speed or cocaine in her
drink. It is known that she stayed in her room all of the following day, Sunday, telling
her parents that she had flu.
Becky apparently began hemorrhaging five days later Friday
morning the day she died. Her mother recalls that she said earlier that day,
"Mommy, I started," with a smile, which she thought was odd because Becky
usually dreaded the cramps associated with her period. After the bleeding started, Becky,
who had resisted going to the doctor, now agreed to seek medical help. Her father took her
to the hospital that afternoon. She died that night. Heather Clark flatly insists that
Becky did not attempt to abort. She has stated that Becky talked about getting a legal
abortion in Kentucky right up until the day she died. (Heather believes Becky had a
miscarriage.) Furthermore, after Beckys death, her mother found a list of abortion
clinics and adoption agencies in her daughters purse. Also, Heather Clark has stated
that the day before Becky died, "Becky asked me for the phone number of a Planned
Parenthood clinic in Louisville." Your authors have a copy of the autopsy report. It
lists "manner of death" as "undetermined." It then lists "cause
of death" as "septic abortion with pneumonia." Remember, in medical
reports, miscarriages are referred to as "abortions" or "spontaneous
abortions." This is what has caused the confusion as, by carefully reading the
autopsy report, it is obvious that the primary cause of death was fulminating, cavitating
pneumonia and sepsis, along with evidence of a spontaneous abortion (miscarriage). The
autopsy report reads as follows:
"The uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries are present. They
are of usual size and shape for age. No tumors are present. There is evidence of
recent pregnancy with recent partial abortion. The uterus is enlarged consistent with
current pregnancy of age approximately 2-3 months. The cervix is dilated uniformly without
evidence of mucosal or submucosal injury. Extruding from the cervical os is hemorraghic
and necrotic red-tan and grey-brown tissue consistent with products of conception. The
lower third of the uterine cavity has only the flat mucosa without obvious evidence of
instrumentation. However, the upper 2/3 of the uterine cavity has a mixture of blood clot
and necrotic and hemmorraghic products of conception. There are no recognizable fetal
parts, and the amniotic membrance has been ruptured, leaving only a small area
recognizable as thin blue-tan glistening membranes. There is no evidence of hydatid mole
or invasive chorio-carcinoma. The serosa of the uterus is smooth and glistening and
without exudate, and there are no areas of perforation or pus in or around the uterus. The
right ovary has a 1 x 1 1/2 x 1 inch bright yellow corpus luteum. The remainder of the
ovaries shows unremarkable for age ovaries. There are no injuries of the vagina."
Let us translate. That she was pregnant is obvious. The cervix in a
17-year-olds first pregnancy would have to be stretched open by an abortionist,
causing some tearing of the lining of that cervix, even by the most gentle dilation. If a
trained abortionist had performed an abortion, there would have been evidence of scraping,
trauma, scratching, and tearing. Had an untrained person attempted an abortion, there
would have been much more damage to the cervix and uterus. To have a cervix "dilated
uniformly without evidence of mucosal or submucosal injury" totally rules out the use
of any instrumentation; rather, it tells any physician that this was a spontaneous
abortion (miscarriage), not an induced abortion.
The description of what "extrudes" from the "cervical
os" (cervical opening) is the normal leftover from a nearly completed miscarriage.
The report then further states that the lower third of the uterus was "without
obvious evidence of instrumentation." The report describes the remaining tissue in
the upper two-thirds as exactly what one would expect from a miscarriage. Then the report
speaks of the serosa, which is the outer covering of the womb, which is described as
"smooth, glistening and without exudate." Exudate would be pus or oozing if the
organ was infected. If this had been a case of septic abortion, this tissue would be
shaggy and discolored (not "smooth, glistening and without exudate"). Further,
the report stated, "there are no areas of perforation or pus." Finally, there
are "no injuries of the vagina." Clearly she did not have an induced abortion.
The autopsy report of the lungs and pleural (chest) cavities take up over half a page of
single-spaced reporting, and describe the near total destruction of those organs by
infection.
Dr. Nathanson, who performed thousands of abortions before he
completely reversed his position and became a pro-lifer, agrees that "there is no
evidence for an induced abortion at all." He states that the cause of death was
obviously overwhelming pneumonia unrelated to the miscarriage, with no evidence of
significant infection inside or outside of the uterus.
The report details that the germ that killed Becky (streptococcus
pneumoniae) is a common pneumonia germ unlikely to originate from a contaminated abortion
procedure.
Dr. Curtis Harris, a teaching Endocrinologist from Oklahoma City and
president of the American Academy of Medical Ethics, has consulted in detail with four
prominent specialists in the fields of infectious disease, Ob/Gyn. Infertility, and
Pathology. All of them have agreed that Becky had a spontaneous miscarriage; that her
uterus was not infected; that in all likelihood her drug taking was the primary cause of
the infection, perhaps causing vomiting and aspiration of the vomitus into the lungs or
through toxicity; that the miscarriage was likely directly related to drug ingestion; and
that she died from overwhelming sepsis from the lung infection, which was completely
unrelated to her spontaneous miscarriage. He and the consultants asked for slides for
pathologic consultation and examination. Was she on drugs? Blood specimens analyzed were
negative for alcohol, cocaine, speed and "other drugs," but there was no
examination for marijuana. The blood was taken one week after the above party at which
time all of the drugs should have cleared her system, with the exception of marijuana, but
it was not tested for.
Conclusion
Becky Bell did not die from an induced abortion. The entire attempt
by the abortion industry to so label her death was a total lie.
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