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WHY CAN'T WE LOVE THEM BOTH
by Dr. and Mrs. J.C. Willke
CHAPTER 31
UNWANTED
Since when does anyones right to live depend uponsomeone else wanting them?
Prior to the legalization of abortion in most developed countries, it was widely
claimed that unwanted pregnancies resulted in a significant number of unwanted children,
some of whom were subjects of child abuse. Legalization of abortion was held up as a
panacea for this. It would reduce unwanted pregnancies and lower the incidence of child
abuse. Planned Parenthood was a leader here, coining the familiar slogan, "every
child a wanted child."
Shouldnt every child be
wanted?
At first glance, yes! "Every Child a Wanted Child" is a great slogan. Who can
argue? That isnt the disagreement. It is how to achieve such a goal. We agree that
every child should be wanted. A world with only wanted children would be an idyllic place
in which to live. No one could quarrel with that as an idealistic goal. Wouldnt it
also be a wonderful world if there were no unwanted wives by husbands, no aging parents
unwanted by their children, no unwanted Jews, blacks, Catholics, Chicanos, or ever again a
person who, at one time or place, finds himself or herself unwanted or persecuted.
Lets all try to achieve this, but also remember that people have clay feet and,
sadly, the unwanted will probably always be with us.
A second thought: Women resent that the value of a woman is sometimes determined by
whether a man wants her. Yet radical feminists insist that the value of an unborn boy or
girl is to be determined by whether a woman wants him or her.
To use being wanted by someone as a measure of whether a human life is allowed
to live is a frightening concept. Its converse logically awaits us that the
unwanted can be eliminated. Dont forget, Hitlers Germany was ideal for wanted
Aryans.
Since when does anyones right to live depend upon someone else wanting them?
"Every Child a Wanted Child" should be completed with "and if not
wanted, kill!" for that is exactly what that Planned Parenthood slogan means. To thus
complete the sentence removes the mask from this misleading slogan and reveals it for the
monstrous evil that it is. That certainly makes it sound different!
Yes, and it is of crucial importance that every time we hear that phrase, we should add
Planned Parenthoods solution, "and if not wanted, kill!"
Do parents kill teenagers when they are not wanted, or Uncle Joe after his stroke, or
Mom, now that she is such a burden? You say no?
Do we give the mother the legal right to kill the two-year- old daughter who is a
burden to her? No! Then why and how can we give her the legal right to kill the
two-month-old daughter living inside her who is a burden to her?
The U.S. Supreme Court and the governments in many other nations have, for the first
time in modern history, granted to one citizen (the mother) the absolute legal right to
kill another, if that first person does not want them!
Think of the logic of the inevitable extension of such a freedom to kill. We could
solve poverty by killing unwanted poor people, or religious or political groups, or those
too old, too burdensome, and on and on . . .
OK,
the ethic is horrible, but unwanted pregnancies do result in unwanted children, dont
they?
No, not in any greater percentage than wanted pregnancies.
Think of your own pregnancies. Was each planned, or was this or that one a surprise?
Were you really happy each time, in the first month or two? Be honest.
In the first few weeks or months, were all of your pregnancies really
"wanted"?
But now look at your children. Are you glad you have them? Would you give any back
have any of them killed?
Youve changed your mind, havent you? For almost all of you, a pregnancy
that was truly unwanted has resulted in a dearly loved and wanted son or daughter.
If we permit abortion for an unwanted pregnancy, we will be destroying vast numbers of
children who, by the time of their birth and through their childhood, would have been very
dearly wanted and deeply loved children indeed. If the judgment of being wanted at an
early stage of pregnancy were a final judgment, and abortions were permitted freely, a
high percentage of everyone reading this book would never have been born.
How many unwanted pregnancies are
there?
Some claims are clearly ridiculous. TIME Magazine claimed there were at least 6
million unwanted pregnancies in the U.S. each year. TIME,
Feb. 26, 1990, p. 94
In that year there were 4 million births, about 1.6 million abortions, plus about
400,000 miscarriages. According to TIMEs claim, every pregnancy that
year was unwanted.
Are there any scientific studies?
Not many recent ones because now abortion is legal in most developed nations which are
the ones that do such studies.
Back in the 50s and 60s, there were a good dozen well done studies which
were reported in detail in your authors editions of Handbook on Abortion in
the 70s.
All of these presumed the negative effects claimed above. They matched groups of
pregnant women . . . (1) who wanted abortions, couldnt get them and went on to
deliver . . . and (2) women pleased with wanted pregnancies. These investigators studied
the resultant children and compared them. Without exception, they found little difference
in love, care and wantedness and of neglect and lack of care in the groups that were
compared.
Give a few examples.
Dr. Ferriera found no relationship between unplanned pregnancies and newborn deviant
behavior. In fact, there were more deviant babies of mothers who had planned their
pregnancy than those who had not. A. J. Ferriera,
"The Pregnant Womans Emotional Attitude and Its Reflection in the
Newborn." Amer. Jour. Orthopsychiatry, vol. 30, 1960, p. 553
"There is a contention that unwanted
conceptions tend to have undesirable effects . . . the direct evidence for such a
relationship is almost completely lacking, except for a few fragments of retrospective
evidence. It was the hope of this article to find more convincing systematic research
evidence and to give some idea of the amount of relationship between unwanted conception
and undesired effect on children. This hope has been disappointed." E. Pohlman, "Unwanted Conception, Research on Undesirable
Consequences," Eugenics Quarterly, vol. 14, 1967, p. 143
"It is clear that mothers who initially believed their pregnancy to be the
worst thing that ever happened to them came to feel about the same degree of
affection for their children as the mothers who were initially ecstatic about
the pregnancy.
"Most women who were most regretful of the pregnancy now claim they would have the
child again if given the opportunity [whereas] one of every six mothers who were initially
pleased with pregnancy would choose not to have the child again. "[They conclude] . .
. initial feelings about pregnancy are predictive of how a mother will eventually feel
about her child to only a very limited degree." P.
Cameron et al., "How Much do Mothers Love Their Children," Rocky Mt.
Psychological Assn., May 12, 1972
Others have conclusively demonstrated a spontaneous
change from prepartum rejection to postpartum acceptance of their children by a group of
mothers. M. Zemlich & R. Watson, "Attitudes of
Acceptance and Rejection During and After Pregnancy," Amer. Jour. Orthopsychiatry,
vol. 23, 1953, p. 570
What of other countries?
- Japan has had abortion-on-demand for over 4 decades. It is used there as a method of
birth control, but "cases of infanticide have been increasing so much that social
workers have made appeals to Japanese mothers in newspapers and on television not to kill
their babies." The Sunday Times, June 23,
1974
- In England the Working Party of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
stated that the vast majority of unplanned pregnancies become wanted children.
- Aberdeen, Scotland is a unique city because, through an unusual law, it has had open
abortion for 20 years in a nation that has had legal abortion only one-third as long. If
the availability of abortion did reduce unwanted children, it should have the best record
in Britain. In fact, it has the worst record, with 10.2 per 1,000 abandoned, abused, and
uncared for children being supported by public agencies compared with the national
average of 6.6. Annual Report, Chief Medical Health
Officer, Aberdeen, Scotland, 1972
Dont some studies prove the
opposite?
No! In the entire world literature on this subject, there are only two studies that
attempt to show that there is a negative effect on the children who had been
"unwanted pregnancies." Both have been conclusively shown to be invalid. The
first study, from Sweden, concluded that such a child "runs a risk of having to
surmount greater mental and social handicaps than its peers . . ." Forssman & Thuwe, "One Hundred and Twenty Children Born after
Application for Therapeutic Abortion Refused," Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica, vol.
42, 1966, pp. 71-88
Professor Paul Cameron has clearly shown that an evaluation of the mothers in this
study showed sufficient differences with the control group so that the authors
conclusions were a mis-analysis," invalid, and could have been predicted from these
differences alone, whether the pregnancy was wanted or not. There were, incidentally,
little differences anyway between the children in the study and the control. P. Cameron, "The Swedish Children Born to Women Denied
Abortion Study: A Radical Criticism," Psychological Reports, vol. 39,
1976, pp. 391-394
The second study concluded that "Compulsory childbearing has varied and sometimes
unfavorable consequences for the subsequent life of the child." Dytrych et al., "Children Born to Women Denied Abortion," Family
Planning Perspectives, vol. 7, no. 4, July-Aug. 1975
Professor Samuel Nigro, child psychiatrist at Case Western Reserve University, has
published a scathing commentary on this study. He points to the fact that the data found
and published in the article "renders the conclusions untenable." He details the
"striking differences in the families of the two groups of children," (the study
group having more unstable mothers and fathers than the control group), as the obvious
cause for the differences in the children.
"The conclusions appear to be contrived by an abuse of scientific method
deplorable to the point of discrediting the researchers, of discrediting the
Institute which sponsored the research, and of questioning the use of public funds for
a publication which takes such license with scientific data." S. Nigro, University Hospitals of Cleveland, Open Letter to Family
Planning Perspectives, March 10, 1976
In 1989, Henry David reported on the follow up to the above studies and detailed
certain less than catastrophic psychosocial problems of children born after unwanted
pregnancies. Report to American Psychological Assn.
Meeting, "Born Unwanted -Developmental Effects of Denied Abortion," H. David, et
al., Springer Co. 1988
In another critique, Dr. Nigro has written a devastating critique of Davids
study. He cites "flawed, tendentious, sorry science. It is advocacy." Unwanted
pregnancy is held up as a reason to kill before birth. Dr. Nigro then details the
"preselection bias," among other problems in the study. Finally he notes that
even if one accepts everything
Dr. David claims, that by any measurement, the psychosocial maladjustment of these
children is minor (e.g., 257 none have raped, robbed, or assaulted anyone). Dr. Nigro asks, "Is the
record of these children so socially destructive as to justify their deaths to prevent
their existence?" Review, S. Nigro, M.D., Case
Western Reserve, U. of Cleveland, Sept. 1988
But
dont many unwanted pregnancies become battered children?
- Not so. The landmark study on this was done at the University of Southern California.
Professor Edward Lenoski studied 674 consecutive battered children who were brought to the
in- and out-patient departments of that medical center. He was the first to go to the
parents and study to what extent they wanted and planned the pregnancy. To his surprise,
he found that 91% were planned and wanted, compared to 63% for the control groups
nationally. Further, the mothers had began wearing, on the average, pregnancy clothes at
114 days compared to 171 days in the control, and the fathers named the boys after
themselves 24% of the time compared to 4% for the control groups. E. Lenoski, Heartbeat, vol. 3, no. 4, Dec. 1980
- Both parents (or parent figures) lived in 80% of the homes. Two-thirds of the mothers
were "house-wives" and presumably were at home. Almost all mothers were in the
20-30 age group, and fathers were in the 20-35 age bracket. No special social, racial, or
economic class predominated. Francis, "Child
Abuse, A Nationwide Study," Amer. Humane Assn. & Child Welfare League, 1963
- The parents commonly "...grew up in a hostile environment, and were themselves
abused. When the children fail to satisfy their [unrealistic, neurotic expectations of
perfection] emotional needs, the parents react with the same violence they experienced as
children." 258 J. Walsh, IL Dept. of Child and
Family Services Newsweek, July 24, 1972 Not much
has changed since these earlier investigations.
There is much that we still do not know about the sick psychology that leads to child
abuse. One thing does stand out, however: Prenatally, these were not unwanted
pregnancies, they were super-wanted pregnancies.
What if a mother really doesnt want the baby?
There are millions of outstretched arms aching to adopt and love a baby. Her answer is
to place the baby in a secure, loving, adoptive home.
Ive
been told that aborting unwanted babies would leave more wanted ones and, therefore, there
would be less child abuse.
Exactly the opposite has happened. In New York City during the 60s, the number of
abused children had averaged about 5,000 cases a year. Abortion was legalized in 1970. By
1975, over 25,000 cases were reported. The figures for the entire U.S. are:
| Date |
Total Number |
| 1973 |
167,000 |
| 1979 |
711,142 |
| 1993 |
1,057,255 |
| 1996 |
1,220,000 |
U.S. Dept. H.H.S., Nat. Center of
Child Abuse,Child Maltreatment 259
Canadas statistics show the same:
| Year |
Abortions |
Child Abuse |
| 1971 |
16,172 |
422 |
| 1978 |
38,782 |
1,762 |
| 1994 |
104,403 |
30,366* |
Child Welfare Branch, Ministry of Human
Resource, Ontario, Canada *These are the totals reported from all provinces except PEI
and includes physical,sexual,and emotional abuse. Note that provinces vary in definition
of "child abuse" and reporting requirements.
Ohio reported 27,248 cases in 1981 and 65,965 in
1985, a 142% increase according to a survey by the U.S. House of Representatives Select
Committee on Children, Families and Youth for the largest state increase. The same survey
reported over a 55% increase nationwide from 1981 to 1985. Assoc. Press, March 3, 1987.
D r. Phillip Ney, Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Christ Church, New
Zealand, while still at the University of British Columbia, published a widely read study
of this. His analysis clearly pointed to the fact that abortion (and its acceptance of the
violence of killing the unborn) lowered a parents psychic resistance to violence and
abuse of the born. P. Ney, "Relationship Between
Abortion & Child Abuse," Canada Jour. Psychiatry, vol. 24, 1979, pp.
610-620
A nation and its people will ultimately be judged not by the fact that there are
unwanted ones among them, but by what is done for them.
Are They Cared For?
or
Are They Killed?
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